Is Soul Mate A Myth?

Love is certainly the most beautiful feeling in the world. People are talking and writing a lot about soul mate. Is soul mate a truth? Or is it just a myth?

Who exactly is soul mate? The moment you see them for the first time, you feel instantly attracted to them. You feel like instinctively connected to him/her.You feel as if you know them already through many births. It's a kind of your soul recognizing his/her soul.

You feel so blissful when you are with him/her. You will be willing and ready to do any sacrifice for him/her. Your soul mate is compatible with you in many ways. Your soul mate is your best friend. You will miss him/her terribly when he/she is away from you.

Your soul mate may not be the perfect person for you. But you will be able to accept him/her as they are. You can accept their flaws naturally and may even like their flaws too.

I think only  a few people are blessed to find their soul mates in this birth.

Are you with your soul mate?

               Arranged Marriages in India

                                 Ego Kills relationship

Evolution of Romantic Relationship

Love begins with lust in all relationships. Men are visual creatures. They are clean bowled by the physical appeal of women. So, I would say love begins with lust. 

During the honeymoon period, lust takes the upper hand. Both the man and the woman focus mainly on physical pleasures during this period. Both won't show their negative side of them. They will only show the plus points to the partner and hide their minus points from them.

After the honeymoon period is over, both the partners start showing their real qualities and characters. Both partners begin to know the minus points of their partners. If they can cope with the flaws of their partner, the relationship will grow further and become 

stronger.

Some couples can't tolerate the flaws of their partners and their relationship can't last long.

The real love develops only after the honeymoon period. Both will be able to tolerate the flaws of each other and do sacrifices for each other. They will become the best friends for each other.

Their relationship will evolve into a healthy and long lasting relationship after sometime. 

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How Successful are the Arranged Marriages in India?

In western countries like USA, arranged marriage is a rare event. Most Americans date before marriage. They get to know each other, live together for sometime and then get married. However, in India even today arranged marriages are more popular than love marriages. 

What exactly is arranged marriage anyway? It's a kind of marital union where the bridegroom and bride are selected by third parties like parents, relatives, friends, marriage agencies etc.

It is estimated that about 75% of people in India go for arranged marriages. The success rate of arranged marriages is said to be about 90%.

What about the success rate in love marriages? Mumbai High Court has clearly said that the divorce rate is higher in love marriages.

I'm not saying love marriage is not the right choice. In India, most love marriages are not supported by the parents. Both the boy and the girl expect too much from each other as they marry against the wishes of families. When some misunderstanding creeps in after the honeymoon is over, they can't adjust with each other and opt for divorce eventually.

The point is when you choose love marriage, do not have high expectations from your partner. Marriage is all about being flexible. You have to be doubly flexible when you opt for love marriage.

                 How to Make Your Man adore You

                                               Ego Kills Relationships

15 Top Tips to Make Your Man Adore You

Nothing will make you happier than your man treating you like a queen. What makes some men adore their women?

1. Men will love the women who really care for them.
2. Men love the women who are loyal.
3. Men love the women who cook delicious food for them.
4. Men love the women who take good care of their children.
5. Men love women who take good care of their homes.
6. If you respects his family members, he will love you a lot.
7. If you are good in bed, he will love you more.
8. Men love confident women.
9. If you look beautiful, he will love you for that too.
10. If you have good manners, it will impress him.
11. The way you dress and the way you talk will also have great impact on him.
12. Men love humorous women.
13.  Men love women who forgive them.
14. Men love women who fully trust them.
15. Men love women who give them their space.

I know the list is almost an impossible one for today's women. 

The more the above mentioned qualities you have, the more he will adore you.

                             Ego Kills Relationship

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Ego, the Number One Killer of Relationship

There are two things that ruin a relationship mainly. One is infidelity. The other one is 'ego'. 

Yes, ego plays a big role in relationship failures. Man has his male ego. Modern woman has her own ego too. When one or both partners carry ego, the relationship will be at great risk.

When they pick up a fight and argue, ego stops them from saying sorry even if they realize they were wrong. The reason for one of them or both may give silent treatment is ego.

They expect their partners to apologize and make up with them. When there's ego, there can't be true love. Where there's true love, ego can't exist.

True love and ego can't go together. 

Shed your ego and be the best friend to your love partner. After all, she/he is going to travel with you in your life journey till the end.

Shed your ego, lose the fight to win your relationship.

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Silence in Relationship is not Golden

It's said that silence is golden. Yes, it is on some occasions. But it's not at all golden when it comes to relationship. 

Silent treatment in relationship does heavy damage to the relationship. In fact, silent treatment is a kind of emotional abuse.
Why do men and women go silent? What are they trying to say by not saying?

Men may go silent for some reasons and women will do that for different reasons. Nevertheless the pain they both experience is truly huge and unbearable.

I think there should be no ego between the husband and the wife. Most relationship failures are caused by the ego of one or both the partners.

After all, he/she is your life partner. Why should you let ego ruin your relationship? 

If your partner goes silent, think deeply and find out what made him/her to go to silent mode. If you have done anything wrong or if you have hurt him/her, apologize immediately. 

Try to do things that would please him/her. Avoid doing things that will annoy/irritate/hurt him/her. 

It's as simple as that if you really want to work for strengthening your relationship.

Make up with him/her as quickly as possible. Ensure you are not carrying your silent treatment beyond the night.

               Love Most Powerful In World

              Secret to Long Lasting Relationship

Is Love the Most Powerful Thing in the World?

Romantic love is really very powerful. When you fall head over heels in love you will feel that you would sacrifice your life for the sake of love. You will be ready to take any pains to succeed in your love.

Love can destroy empires. It can totally change your life. It can give positive and negative results. I mean love can make you successful or fail in life.

You can't under-estimate the power of love. It has ruined lives of millions of people in the world. It can affect your wealth, health, fame, peace and happiness. On the other hand, it can help you to build a bright career, motivate you to make more money and become successful in life.

Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world. I think the whole world revolves around love.

A life without love is like a body without soul.

True love is the most precious thing in the world.

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