It's said that silence is golden. Yes, it is on some occasions. But it's not at all golden when it comes to relationship.
Silent treatment in relationship does heavy damage to the relationship. In fact, silent treatment is a kind of emotional abuse.
Why do men and women go silent? What are they trying to say by not saying?
Men may go silent for some reasons and women will do that for different reasons. Nevertheless the pain they both experience is truly huge and unbearable.
I think there should be no ego between the husband and the wife. Most relationship failures are caused by the ego of one or both the partners.
After all, he/she is your life partner. Why should you let ego ruin your relationship?
If your partner goes silent, think deeply and find out what made him/her to go to silent mode. If you have done anything wrong or if you have hurt him/her, apologize immediately.
Try to do things that would please him/her. Avoid doing things that will annoy/irritate/hurt him/her.
It's as simple as that if you really want to work for strengthening your relationship.
Make up with him/her as quickly as possible. Ensure you are not carrying your silent treatment beyond the night.
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